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因纽特父母如何教孩子控制愤怒
How Inuit parents teach kids to control their anger
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这篇 NPR 报道介绍因纽特父母如何用讲故事、做游戏/演情景等方式，教孩子识别和控制愤怒，而不是靠呵斥或惩罚。文章强调以身作则，并引用人类学家 Briggs 的观察，把育儿放在因纽特文化对“ihuma”（愤怒/脾气）的理解中。它既提供一种不同于西方的管教视角，也引发关于情绪压抑和文化适用性的讨论。
为什么经久不衰：它把一种经过长期实践、与西方主流很不同的育儿智慧摆到读者面前，同时留下“跨文化是否适用、压抑情绪是否健康”的争议，因此多年反复上首页。
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育儿方法依赖同伴文化的一致性，跨文化移植可能失效。
一篇好文章，但我唯一的疑问是：它有效，是否因为所有同伴都这样长大？比如在西方社会这样养孩子，孩子在家学一种行为方式，却大部分时间在学校和其他孩子完全不同，可能产生冲突。我记得自己被教育不要顶撞大人，后来看到别的孩子顶撞父母还没事，那套教育就失效了。
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An excellent read, but my only doubt is whether this is effective because all your peers have been raised this way. Ie - If someone raises his/her child like this in our western society it might be conflicting for the child to learn how to behave like this at home, and then spend the majority of their time at school where other children behave completely differently. I certainly recall being raised to never answer back to your adults. And then I saw other kids answering back to their parents (and getting away with it) and then all that upbringing went out the window.
过度压抑愤怒和情绪可能带来心理健康代价，并质疑跨文化适应。
我最近去了斯里兰卡，70% 的人是佛教徒。那是个美丽的岛，人们平静友善，对游客也很好，旅行很愉快，安全，犯罪和偷窃几乎不存在，分歧也能冷静解决。但我发现它自杀率位居世界前列。原因之一可能是斯里兰卡人不谈感受；内战结束十年，不谈创伤很可能伤害心理健康。隐藏攻击性也可能不健康。研究显示压抑攻击性是抑郁原因之一，取决于社会。攻击性不等于打人，可以是提高声音、清楚表达观点。我不确定一个平静自控的因纽特孩子在西式幼儿园、学校或职场会不会轻松。
Flip-per查看英文原文
I've been to Sri Lanka recently where 70 % of the people are Buddhists. It's a beautiful island, the people are very calm and nice to each other and to Tourists, it was a pleasure to travel around. It's a very safe place, crime and stealing is almost nonexistent. Disagreements are solved in a quite calm way. And then I got aware that it has one of the highest suicide rates worldwide. How comes? One issue might be that Sri Lankans do not talk about their feelings. The civil war ended 10 years ago, not talking about what happened very likely has bad effects on mental health. Another issue could be that hiding aggression might not be healthy either. Studies show that hiding aggression is one possible cause for depressions, which might depend on the society you are living in. (I didn't read those studies but heard them from multiple reliable sources) Being aggressive doesn't mean starting to hit somebody, it can be raising your voice and get your opinion across very clearly. I'm not sure whether a calm and self-controlled Inuit child would have an easy time in a western Kindergarten, school, or workplace.
推荐原始民族志，其中对“ihuma”和日常生活的观察比育儿部分更有价值。
文章提到的 Briggs 那本书很有意思。她去世后出现了几篇类似文章，我找来一本。我原以为书主要讲育儿，虽然育儿确实是其中一面，但她对“ihuma”概念及其如何适用于寄宿家庭和同一群体其他成年人互动的观察更有趣；她对冰上冰下日常生活的观察也很享受。除非你对清理鱼特别兴奋，否则它不算冒险故事，但作为北美原住民文化的读者，它提供了一种生活方式的一瞥，可悲的是这种生活方式不会持续太久。
gooseyard查看英文原文
The Briggs book referenced in the article is a really interesting read. I tracked down a copy after several articles like this one appeared shortly after her death. I assumed that the book primarily focused on child-rearing, but while that aspect of their culture is certainly an aspect of the book, her study of the concept of "ihuma" and how it applies to interactions between her host family and other adults in the same band were even more interesting to me, and her general observations about day to day life both on and off the ice were very enjoyable. It's not a tale of adventure unless you're really excited by cleaning fish, but as a voracious reader of native american culture it provides a great glimpse into a way of life which tragically would not last much longer.
角色扮演和预演替代反应，是实用且值得借鉴的育儿技巧。
有些内容显而易见，但值得提醒，比如以身作则。一个独特之处让我好奇：演戏剧/演情景。“演戏剧”听起来浪漫化，但若理解正确，是练习对导致不良行为的事件做出更好反应。“Johnny，我要偷你的玩具，而不是像打你兄弟那样打我，用语言表达。”这种明确练习/排练技能我没想到，但作为教学方式完全合理。
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Some of the stuff in here is obvious stuff that nonetheless is great to get reminders of, like leading by example. There was a unique piece that really intrigues me: Putting on a play/putting on a drama. "Putting on a drama" seems like a pretty romanticized way to say it, but if I understand correctly, it's practicing better responses to events that led to bad behavior. "Johnny, I'm going to steal your toy, and instead of hitting me like you hit your brother, use your words." That kind of explicit practice/rehearsal of skills isn't something I'd have thought of, but it makes total sense as a valuable way to teach and learn.
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